Umi Writes

   The aim of dating is to look for a companion with whom you want to share your life experiences. However, there are some times in your life when you should not even be thinking about dating. Here are four reasons why you should not be dating.   You’re married Anyone with half a mind would realize that this is possibly the most inappropriate time when anyone would decide to start dating. Being married means you’re committed to someone already, which makes you off-limits and makes everyone else who is not your spouse effectively invalid to you. Wanting to date when you’re already married is downright cruel to all parties involved, including yourself.     Freshly divorced Image Source : Pxhere It might actually sound like a good idea for you to immediately look for a new significant other during this stage. But post-divorce situations are messy and you might want to reconsider dating while readjusting to life as a single person. Take a year or t...

‘Love may just be a chapter in a boy’s life, but to a girl, it’s the whole story’. A well said quote that I think sums up a woman’s search for Mr Right quite succinctly. Ever since anyone can remember, women have been searching for the ‘perfect guy’ when it comes to dating. We all know that there’s no such thing as perfect when it comes to us mere mortals, but that’s not to say that you can’t find your true love in life. However, the ‘how’ of this is difficult to pinpoint. How can a woman tell for sure if the guy she’s looking at is someone who’ll be true to her or just someone who’s in it for fun? Here are four dating tips on how to find Mr Right.. Follow your instinct Image Source : pxhere First impressions are so important when meeting someone since it sticks with you for the rest of your relationship, consciously or otherwise. However, if you’ve been with the guy for months and you suddenly get that niggling feeling that he’s just not that good for you, or that he’s ...

Taken with my Huawei P20 Pro. This is a picture outside my daughter's school.   I didn't know that I love to take pictures until my images got rejected after I tried to upload them to an image sharing website. I know I'm just an amateur photographer. Well, I'm embarrassed even to call myself a photographer. I'm just someone who likes to snap beautiful scenery. I don't do selfies. I'm just not photogenic. I know now that there are cellphone cameras that will make you look pretty with their beauty shot mode but I still think I don't look good in pictures so I just snap pictures of scenery, flowers, buildings etc. I would like to share these pictures here since my pictures aren't up to the standard of some image sharing website. Instagram accepts all my pictures. So, you can find me on Instagram . Most of my photos can be found over at Instagram or over at this blog.